guest post by Sandy Walden
A very wise woman I know very gently reminds others, ‘Sometimes you just need to spend time sitting in the mud’.
And I believe she’s absolutely right.
When you have a heart that is grieving, you may not even realize how very exhausted you are at the end of each day… or even right after waking. Grief is very hard work!
Time out matters.
While we often think that we need to get things done, even having a to-do list, a very important part of healing a grieving heart is allowing time and opportunity to simply be in the now. To truly feeeeeeeel all of those emotions at whatever level they are in the moment.
Release judgment. There is no right or wrong to your feelings. They simply are a measurement, an indicator of where you are right now.
What might this look like? It could mean a day curled up in bed for some. Perhaps listening to music, sleeping, crying or reminiscing. It might be time spent on the couch watching shows or movies that take us back to cherished time spent with the one we are missing. Perhaps a nice warm bath nourishing your body.
Find what works for you. This is not about movement or work; this is about feeling and allowing your heart to express itself.
And here’s a little secret for you. While this may feel as though you are doing nothing at all, you are in fact accomplishing quite a lot. It’s important to fully feel and acknowledge all feelings in order for them to begin healing.
Spend some time sitting in the mud. As you rest your body, your heart and your soul be assured that healing is happening deep within. This is a very important part of the healing journey.
Namaste,
Sandy
sandywalden.com
A very wise woman I know very gently reminds others, ‘Sometimes you just need to spend time sitting in the mud’.
And I believe she’s absolutely right.
When you have a heart that is grieving, you may not even realize how very exhausted you are at the end of each day… or even right after waking. Grief is very hard work!
Time out matters.
While we often think that we need to get things done, even having a to-do list, a very important part of healing a grieving heart is allowing time and opportunity to simply be in the now. To truly feeeeeeeel all of those emotions at whatever level they are in the moment.
Release judgment. There is no right or wrong to your feelings. They simply are a measurement, an indicator of where you are right now.
What might this look like? It could mean a day curled up in bed for some. Perhaps listening to music, sleeping, crying or reminiscing. It might be time spent on the couch watching shows or movies that take us back to cherished time spent with the one we are missing. Perhaps a nice warm bath nourishing your body.
Find what works for you. This is not about movement or work; this is about feeling and allowing your heart to express itself.
And here’s a little secret for you. While this may feel as though you are doing nothing at all, you are in fact accomplishing quite a lot. It’s important to fully feel and acknowledge all feelings in order for them to begin healing.
Spend some time sitting in the mud. As you rest your body, your heart and your soul be assured that healing is happening deep within. This is a very important part of the healing journey.
Namaste,
Sandy
sandywalden.com
